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Saying Goodbye: How To Break Up With a Lash Client

As a lash artist, building solid relationships with your clients is important to make your business thrive. But sometimes, things don't work out with a client.

Whether it's because of scheduling issues, unrealistic expectations, or other challenges, knowing how to end the relationship gracefully will help maintain your reputation and business integrity.

In this blog post, we’ll explore how to part ways with a lash client respectfully and professionally, making it a smooth process for everyone involved.

Reasons You Might Want To Break Up With a Lash Client

While it’s never easy, sometimes ending a client relationship is necessary for your business and well-being. Here are a few reasons to consider:

  1. Unreasonable expectations: Unrealistic customer demands can cause unnecessary stress and make the relationship more challenging.
  2. Poor retention: When clients regularly neglect to follow aftercare instructions, they are putting their lash health at risk and potentially affecting your reputation with their bad retention.
  3. Late or missed appointments: Continually showing up late or missing appointments can disrupt your schedule and affect other clients.
  4. Negative behavior: Clients who create a toxic environment can harm your mental health and overall work atmosphere.
  5. Poor communication: Effective communication is crucial in any client-artist relationship. It may be time to part ways if a client is difficult to communicate with or doesn't listen to your advice.
  6. Lack of respect: Clients who don't respect your time, boundaries, or expertise can cause frustration and make the working relationship unpleasant.

Before the Breakup

Firing a client should be a last resort. Before deciding to end the relationship, take a moment to reflect and make sure that this is truly the best choice for your business and peace of mind.

Ask yourself these five questions to help you decide if this is the right move. 

Have I Communicated My Expectations Clearly?
Have you made your boundaries, policies, and expectations clear? 
Sometimes, clients may not realize they're overstepping, and a direct conversation could resolve the issue. Have you given them a fair opportunity to adjust their behavior?


Is This Situation Temporary or Long-Term?
Are the problems you’re facing with the client part of a short-term issue, like stress in their life or a temporary misunderstanding? If so, it might be worth giving them some grace.

However, if these issues have been ongoing without improvement, it may be a sign that this client is no longer a good fit.

How Is This Client Impacting My Business?
Consider how this client is affecting your overall business. 

Are their cancellations or demands preventing you from taking on other clients? Are they affecting your schedule, energy, or focus?

If the client takes more from your business than they’re contributing, it could be time to move on.

What Effect Does This Relationship Have on My Well-Being?
Your mental and emotional well-being is just as important as your financial success.

Ask yourself if this client is causing undue stress, anxiety, or frustration. If the relationship is negatively impacting your happiness or passion for your work, ending it could be the best decision for you.

Will This Decision Align With My Brand and Values?
Consider whether maintaining this client aligns with your brand and values.

Does this client represent the type of customer you want to attract? Are you compromising your principles or quality of service by continuing this relationship?

How To Have the Breakup Conversation

When you decide to part ways with a lash client, handling the situation with professionalism and care is important. You can protect your business reputation by approaching it with kindness and respect while keeping things calm.

Here are some key steps to take when ending the relationship:

  • Be honest but kind:  Approach the conversation honestly, but be gentle. Explain that you believe the professional relationship is no longer the best fit without blaming or criticizing the client.
  • Offer a solution: Provide a recommendation for another lash artist or offer a referral to soften the transition for the client. It shows that you still care about their needs, even if you cannot provide the service yourself.
  • Keep it brief and direct: There's no need to over-explain or prolong the conversation. Be concise and to the point while remaining professional and courteous. The more straightforward you are, the easier it is for both parties to move on.
  • Stick to your policies: If the client relationship ends due to repeated policy violations, reference those policies. Doing this will show that your decision is based on maintaining professionalism and fairness in your business practices.
  • End on a positive note: Conclude the conversation by thanking the client for their past business. Wishing them well can go a long way in keeping things respectful.

Level Up Your Lash Game With Lashin' Out

Breaking up with a lash client is never easy, but it’s sometimes necessary to maintain a successful business. By approaching the situation with professionalism, kindness, and clear communication, you can end the relationship gracefully while preserving your reputation.

If you’re facing challenges like difficult client relationships or other hurdles in your lash business, Lashin' Out Academy is here to help. Our 1:1 mentorship program is tailored to your unique struggles as a lash artist, providing the guidance and support you need to grow.


Are you ready to take your business to the next level? Get in touch with us today!